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Loss Support

Explore community events, support groups, patient stories, and mental health resources to help you process the tremendous grief of pregnancy or infant loss.

If you are looking for answers and would like to meet with one of Illume's fertility specialists, we offer comprehensive testing and treatment options for patients trying to conceive after loss.

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Where to Find Loss Support

Explore local and national organizations that provide free information and support to anyone who has experienced a form of loss during their family-building journey.

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1-on-1 Counseling

Need a listening ear? Explore Illume's mental health offerings and how to book a therapy session with a licensed professional familiar with infertility and loss.

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Honest Conversations

Dr. Alexander Kucherov and former Illume Fertility patients Staci and Emily discuss the trauma of recurrent pregnancy loss and what it's like to reimagine your path to parenthood.

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Connect With Others

Join our community by signing up for a free support group such as Encircled, our perinatal loss series led by therapist Elisabeth Schneider, LMFT. 

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Honoring Grief & Loss

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month is observed each October in support of those who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss. This annual advocacy effort also provides resources and information for families who have experienced loss.

In addition, the Wave of Light is a global event that takes place annually on October 15th to honor babies lost during pregnancy, childbirth, or infancy. Participants are encouraged to light a candle, build a fire, or turn on a porch light in remembrance, posting to social media using the hashtag #waveoflight.

Pregnancy Loss Awareness Month
stories of resilience

"I had been pregnant twice before, so I couldn't imagine why would this time be different, especially when we had transferred our lowest graded embryo. The reality is, after experiencing pregnancy loss, infertility and failed transfers, I felt deprived of the joy of pregnancy."

"Our wild and wonderful first 2.5 years as parents was also full of loss and heartbreak. We did two egg retrievals, four transfers of six embryos, and had three pregnancy losses after Fiona was born."

"When we had our miscarriage, it was absolutely devastating and so confusing, as we had seen our little growing baby on the ultrasound screen just seven days earlier."

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If you have experienced pregnancy loss or simply want to get more answers about why you're having trouble conceiving, please reach out. Whenever you're ready, we're here.

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